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March 12, 2008 at 3:04 am #55812
It’s about patterns of behaviour. A mistake outside of a normal patern of behaviour is forgivable. If there is life long pattern of bad or destructive behavior, they need to be cut off.
1. I would not bail him out and never give him any money. I’ve faced this circumstance several times in my life and each time I cut ties with the destructive party.
2. In this case if the act was consumated, that’s a deal breaker and a broken vow…the spouse goes.
3. I would do whatever I could for my children, but at some point the greater focus should be on the grand children.